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The gift in front of you
TODAY’S TIP:
If you can’t see how your prayers have been answered, examine your expectations. We often cannot see the gift right in front of us because we do not expect it to be there or expect it in another form. Take the blindfold off. It’s there.
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Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known shaman who helps you to achieve personal freedom, unlock your creative potential and live a life of magic and delight. She offers books, digital products and guidance, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express. If you want to flourish under Maria’s mentorship and guidance, visit http://www.dreamalchemist.com.
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Are you repelling what you want?
TODAY’ TIP:
Do you know that one of the most common reasons why people do not manifest what they want is that they are actually REPELLING it? Why would you repel what you most desire? Think about it. Let’s talk about this!
Here are three reasons why people repell what they want:
- They are afraid of the unknown. As what they want is yet unknown, they repel it as soon as it approaches.
- They are addicted to effort, control and struggle. They can work hard for it. They can plan and try to control it. They can try hard and spend effort on it. But they cannot ALLOW it to happen.
- They do not know how to RECEIVE. They feel that receiving is a weakness or feels out of control, so they cannot open their hearts and receive the blessings as they come to them. This stops the flow of the Law of Attraction.
Do you know of other reasons why people REPEL what they most desire? Share with us in this post, so that we can all reflect and release what is stopping the Law of Attraction in our lives.
Light and love,
Maria Mar
The Dream Alchemist
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I know it’s here, but I can’t find it!
TODAY’S TIP:
Did you look twice, but could not find that important phone number or paper, in spite being sure that you placed it there? It probably is there.
Your fears and beliefs are delivered via Inner Enemies called Shadows. They confuse you, block the flow and create dissonance.What is happening is that you are experiencing dissonance between what you want and need and some inner belief or expectation that is “singing you backwards.”
When dissonance or blockages assault you, sit quietly, center yourself and breathe deeply and slowly, clearing your mind. Visualize a clear path. See the object in your hands. Smile or sing. Feel in harmony with that which you seek. Try again.
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Healthy Relationships-No2-Differences
TODAY’S TIP:
Healthy Relationship Psychic Key No. 2-Differences
Ask yourself: When I face those differences in my Beloved that exasperate me, am I meeting a teacher? How can these traits enrich and balance me? What can I learn when I stop judging and trying to change him or her?
Example:
You are passionate and quick. Your element is fire and you are quick to rise and respond. You get impatient with his/her slow response and the time s/he takes to deliberate.
Difference as teacher:
Your Beloved’s element is earth. It takes time to form a shape (or opinion) because earthy consciousness considers each consequence to self and others. Once s/he forms an opinion it is usually well informed and therefore, there is no regret and little change. There is congruence and consistency. You, in the other hand, react so quickly that you are prompt to make more mistakes. If you learn from his/her earthy deliberation, instead of judging him/her slow and exasperating about it, you will become wiser in your deliberation. That won’t put out your fire, because that’s essential to you, but it will bring balance, which you need. That’s why you chose this Beloved!
Of course this is easier to say than to do. Here’s one easy quick practice:
- When you find yourself impatient, judging him/her or about to say something to your Beloved, breathe deeply and consciously adopt an attitude of curiosity and observation.
- Give your mind the task of carefully observing his/her actions and learning HOW s/he does it.
- Later that day try to copy him/her consciously when the opportunity arises. Do it as a fun experiment. How does it feel? Is there anything worthwhile that you can copy to enrich your own life repertoire?
- Don’t forget to thank him/her and name what you are learning. (You will be amazed how this tiny recognition enhances your relationship.)
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What are your steps in the dance?
TODAY’S TIP:
What are YOUR steps in the dance? The first step to free yourself from toxic relationships, problems or obstacles is to assume your power as creator or co-creator. Ask yourself the following questions and be impeccable in your answers.
- How is this problem a consequence of my choices, actions, attitudes and responses?
- How does this toxic person or obstacle mirrors your beliefs, thoughts and feelings?
- Have I done this before? Is this part of a pattern or habit?
- How do I attract this type of situations or persons?
- How do I feed this type of situation or toxic relationship?
Observing yourself during a couple of weeks, asking good friends to remind you of similar situations and looking at past relationships and at your family’s dysfunctional patterns will help answer these questions. Write the answers in your journal.
Only when you can recognize your own steps in the dance can you change the dance because the ONLY steps you can change are yours.
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Tips for Toxic Relationships
TODAY’S TIP:
Toxic Relationships. They are painful. They can drag on for years. They diminish your energy and sabotage your dreams and your self esteem. Here’s a head start:
- Understand what makes the relationship toxic.
- See the Sacred Mirror that this relationship presents. What is this person mirroring about you that you need to see. Find your Shadow Selves.
- Track down the feelings and beliefs that create your emotional attachment to this person.
I know. It’s easier said than done. Here’s help. I am working on the Toxic Relationships Self-help Kit as I speak. It will be ready by the end of August.
You can pre-order yours at: http://toxicrelationships.eventbrite.com
Toxic Relationships: Love Them, but LEAVE Them
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Snake Medicine: Shed your old skin
TODAY’S TIP:
Animal Medicine-No. 2. Snake
Life Renewal: Shedding the old skin
Snake teaches you to shed your old skin. It’s a messy process. When your old self begins to lift off you, it’s hard to know who you really are. Are you a fake? How come you want and believe one thing, but still do another.
Then, the new skin begins to show up and you feel relief, but you are also scared. You don’t know this new you. Your life is changing. As much as you have dreamt of this new way of life, it’s unknown. It so new that it feels strange most of the time.
As you experience your new self, you feel a great sense of freedom and congruence. Ah! But the old skin sticks here and there, refusing to let go completely. You grow impatient with yourself.
Snake says, “love yourself deeply and unconditionally and trust your Soul to lead the way.”
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The number one enemy of manifestation
TODAY’S TIP:
What is the number ONE enemy of manifestation? Your control obsession. It keeps you jailed in the a tiny familiar world, which you believe you can control. It makes you repel the unknown, evicting you from your dreams and potential. It does not allow you to receive. It sends away the allies that the universe sends you.
Do not confuse control with power. Your obsession with control gets stronger in direct proportion to your core sense of personal powerlessness and your separation from Oneness. Your need to control the tiniest details of the process of manifestation indicates that you do not trust the Universe and cannot receive its gifts.
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RESOURCE:
I recommend a beautiful, powerful teaching from Sugandhi Iyer, Coach, Joyful Manifestation, http://www.lifebusinesscreations.com.
Here’s the article: The difference between obsession and manifestation.
Most of your problems are your creation
TODAY’S TIP:
Remember that computer malfunction that made you miss your deadline? Those late paying clients? The blocked contract? You have single-handedly created this. Yes, YOU. More to the point, your Shadows. Your Inner Enemies have shaped these obstacles into being using the powerhouse of your emotions. Imagine what you could do if you stop feeding your emotions to your Shadows and use them instead to manifest solutions!
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