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November 16, 2010 at 5:38 pm · Filed under BodySoul healing, Break free, Ceremonies, Emotions, Energy, Freedom, Let go, Not manifesting?, Personal Power, self-esteem, self-sabotage, tips and tagged: abusive relationships, attachment, break free from the past, detachment, dream alchemist, Emotions, letting go, personal growth, release trauma, self-esteem, self-love, self-sabotage, Soul Retrieval, success, toxic relationships, transformation
TODAY’S TIP
Attachment is an energy knot that ties you emotionally and energetically to the past, blocking your Personal Freedom and your capacity to manifest your dreams. Find out how to break it below.
PRIMARY ATTACHMENT
Attachment is first created during your socialization –childhood and youth– when your Primary Identity or primary needs are emotionally linked to a particular belief or set of circumstances.
An example of this would be if you learned from your family’s dynamics that you must sacrifice your own desires to be accepted. In this case you are attached to self-sacrifice.
See below for solutions.
SECONDARY ATTACHMENT
Attachment can also be created later on in your adult life when you give away your Personal Power to another person or conditions. This also ties up your energy chords, holding you hostage of that to which you have given away your power.
The classic example of Secondary Attachment is when you give away your Personal Power to your love partner, believing that you are nothing without him or her. You allow humiliation, betrayal and abuse because of this belief.
It is often the case that below the surface of a Secondary Attachment, you will find a Primary Attachment. In the case above, you may find out in your healing process that there is a childhood belief like the one in the first section, where you sacrifice yourself to be loved.
See solutions below.
SOUL INSULT
Finally, if a piece of your Soul is hidden or stolen by trauma, this also creates an attachment because that part of you cannot grow or move on. It is a prisoner of the set of beliefs, emotions and circumstances that insult or injured it, and it cannot leave the place of hiding.
An example of this is if as a child you were shame at a moment when your mother or father had died. A part of you may have hidden in the coffin with your dead parent in order to escape what you perceived at that time as an injury because you were an orphan.
See solutions below.
SOLUTIONS
Break free from Primary Attachment
To break free from Primary Attachment, you need to practice emotional detachment until you know how to energetically and emotionally remove yourself from certain conditions, gathering your Personal Power onto yourself without fear of losing your Primary Identity. Once you master this tool, then you need to apply to the past, persons or social scripts that you have confused with your Primary Identity or that are keeping you from taking care of your primary needs.
RESOURCE: The Unstuck Yourself and Flourish Home Study Course is an intensive, 3-months work out that helps you detach from the past and assume your Personal Power. Read more.
Break free from Secondary Attachment
To break free from Secondary Attachment, you need to place distance between you and the person or conditions to which you’ve given away your power. Then you begin to retrieve each particular aspect of your Personal Power that you gave away. You also need to nurture your self-love and to parent the Wounded Children behind the Secondary Attachment (in the Primary Attachment beneath it) through Self-parenting.
RESOURCE: The Self-mothering Kit helps you mother your Wounded Children and summon your Warrior Mother to be able to make strong decisions for yourself. Read more.
Break free from Soul Insult
To break free from Soul Insult, you need to go through a Soul Retrieval Journey. This can be done with the guidance of a shaman or healer, a qualified hypnotherapist or therapist. (Ask them if they know about Soul Retrieval or Inner Child work). The Soul Retrieval Journey takes you back in time to the past, helps you find the aspect of your Soul that has been stolen or is hidden and brings it back home to your adult self. There are specific steps and conditions for this process, so please seek qualified help.
After bringing that aspect of your Soul back, you need to cultivate a mothering, unconditionally loving relationship with it until it integrates to the rest of your Primary Identity. You do this by self-mothering.
RESOURCES: I am preparing a Soul Retrieval Online Private Session, so email me to get into the waiting list and I’ll email you when it’s ready. Also look at the Self-mothering Kit.
I hope this helps!
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About Maria Mar
Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known healer and shaman who helps you to achieve personal freedom, unlock your creative potential and live a life of magic and delight. She offers books, digital products and private guidance, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.
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November 15, 2010 at 8:11 pm · Filed under Emotions, Freedom, Growth, habits, Let go, Not manifesting?, Personal Power, self-esteem, Shadows/Inner Enemies and tagged: break free from limitations, daily practice, defects, dream alchemist, emotional wounds, fear, Growth, limiting beliefs, manifesting your dream, manifesting your potential, personal growth, Personal Power, releasing habits, self-esteem, self-sabotage, success, what holds you back
TODAY’S TIP:
A lot of us look at our limitations and emotional wounds as defects. This makes us ashamed, encourages self-judgment, diminishes self-love and makes us avoid looking into those Breaking Points that keep us stuck.
Here’s some great news from the secrets of Shamanic Hunters.
Your wounds are NOT defects.
They are your Personal Power. You heard right.
Your Breaking Points are created by you during your Domestication stage (childhood and youth) by using your Personal Power. But you use these powers from a learned place of fear. And you use them in ways that have been modeled for you, which may have been disfunctional.
Instead of avoiding delving into these wounds or limits, go ahead, plunge into them and discover the underlying fear. Beneath it you will find the learned belief that fuels that fear.
Once you do this, you can detach from those old habitual responses. Doing this frees your Personal Power so that you can focus it in the manifestation of your best potential.
This is why spiritual teachers say that you have the power to make Medicine from your Wounds.
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September 8, 2010 at 4:29 pm · Filed under Allowing/Receiving, crisis, Growth, Let go and tagged: change, crisis, dream alchemist, Law of Attraction Tips, letting go, manifestation, meditation, receiving
TODAY’S TIP:
Sometimes God empties your hands so that new, better things can fit on them. If you hold on to the keys to your old life, how can you receive the keys to the brand new life you desire?
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