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Break free from attachment

TODAY’S TIP

Attachment is an energy knot that ties you emotionally and energetically to the past, blocking your Personal Freedom and your capacity to manifest your dreams. Find out how to break it below.

PRIMARY ATTACHMENT

Attachment is first created during your socialization –childhood and youth– when your Primary Identity or primary needs are emotionally linked to a particular belief or set of circumstances.

An example of this would be if you learned from your family’s dynamics that you must sacrifice your own desires to be accepted. In this case you are attached to self-sacrifice.

See below for solutions.

SECONDARY ATTACHMENT

Attachment can also be created later on in your adult life when you give away your Personal Power to another person or conditions. This also ties up your energy chords, holding you hostage of that to which you have given away your power.

The classic example of Secondary Attachment is when you give away your Personal Power to your love partner, believing that you are nothing without him or her. You allow humiliation, betrayal and abuse because of this belief.

It is often the case that below the surface of a Secondary Attachment, you will find a Primary Attachment. In the case above, you may find out in your healing process that there is a childhood belief like the one in the first section, where you sacrifice yourself to be loved.

See solutions below.

SOUL INSULT

Finally, if a piece of your Soul is hidden or stolen by trauma, this also creates an attachment because that part of you cannot grow or move on. It is a prisoner of the set of beliefs, emotions and circumstances that insult or injured it, and it cannot leave the place of hiding.

An example of this is if as a child you were shame at a moment when your mother or father had died. A part of you may have hidden in the coffin with your dead parent in order to escape what you perceived at that time as an injury because you were an orphan.

See solutions below.

SOLUTIONS

Break free from Primary Attachment

To break free from Primary Attachment, you need to practice emotional detachment until you know how to energetically and emotionally remove yourself from certain conditions, gathering your Personal Power onto yourself without fear of losing your Primary Identity. Once you master this tool, then you need to apply to the past, persons or social scripts that you have confused with your Primary Identity or that are keeping you from taking care of your primary needs.

RESOURCE: The Unstuck Yourself and Flourish Home Study Course is an intensive, 3-months work out that helps you detach from the past and assume your Personal Power. Read more.

Break free from Secondary Attachment

To break free from Secondary Attachment, you need to place distance between you and the person or conditions to which you’ve given away your power. Then you begin to retrieve each particular aspect of your Personal Power that you gave away. You also need to nurture your self-love and to parent the Wounded Children behind the Secondary Attachment (in the Primary Attachment beneath it) through Self-parenting.

RESOURCE: The Self-mothering Kit helps you mother your Wounded Children and summon your Warrior Mother to be able to make strong decisions for yourself. Read more.

Break free from Soul Insult

To break free from Soul Insult, you need to go through a Soul Retrieval Journey. This can be done with the guidance of a shaman or healer, a qualified hypnotherapist or therapist. (Ask them if they know about Soul Retrieval or Inner Child work). The Soul Retrieval Journey takes you back in time to the past, helps you find the aspect of your Soul that has been stolen or is hidden and brings it back home to your adult self. There are specific steps and conditions for this process, so please seek qualified help.

After bringing that aspect of your Soul back, you need to cultivate a mothering, unconditionally loving relationship with it until it integrates to the rest of your Primary Identity. You do this by self-mothering.

RESOURCES: I am preparing a Soul Retrieval Online Private Session, so email me to get into the waiting list and I’ll email you when it’s ready. Also look at the Self-mothering Kit.

I hope this helps!

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About Maria Mar

Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known healer and shaman who helps you to achieve personal freedom, unlock your creative potential and live a life of magic and delight. She offers books, digital products and private guidance, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.

If you want to flourish under Maria’s mentorship and guidance, visit http://www.dreamalchemist.com.

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You have no defects!

TODAY’S TIP:

A lot of us look at our limitations and emotional wounds as defects. This makes us ashamed, encourages self-judgment, diminishes self-love and makes us avoid looking into those Breaking Points that keep us stuck.

Here’s some great news from the secrets of Shamanic Hunters.

Your wounds are NOT defects.

They are your Personal Power. You heard right.

Your Breaking Points are created by you during your Domestication stage (childhood and youth) by using your Personal Power. But you use these powers from a learned place of fear.  And you use them in ways that have been modeled for you, which may have been disfunctional.

Instead of avoiding delving into these wounds or limits, go ahead, plunge into them and discover the underlying fear. Beneath it you will find the learned belief that fuels that fear.

Once you do this, you can detach from those old habitual responses. Doing this frees your Personal Power so that you can focus it in the manifestation of your best potential.

This is why spiritual teachers say that you have the power to make Medicine from your Wounds.

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Your Unique Essence

TODAY’S TIP:

What is your Unique Essence? Name three core qualities that
describe who you are, even when you are not doing something. As long as you are breathing, these qualities are streaming in you and touching others. Here are mine. Freedom. Art. Magic. You are welcome to share yours here.

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Are you a success?

TODAY’S TIP:

Are you a success? How do you measure this? We often measure success by external results. This is a mistake because if you have yet to see those results, you will feel a failure! Success is built from the inside out, so that it is always there, no matter what is happening around you, because YOU are the success!

Light and love,

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The open door to freedom

TODAY’S TIP:

In your path to freedom and fulfillment, control is the jail. Connection is the open door. Harmony is the flight.

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A word about passion

TODAY’S TIP:

Infuse your life and your purpose with the power of passion. But watch out! We often confuse passion with high drama, with the pent-up tension we confuse with intensity or with infatuation, drive or ambition. Passion is none of these and much more than this.

So what is passion?

Passion is the exuberant River of Life that flows powerfully through your being, moving in the direction of your Essence. It is electro-magnetic. Like the electrical power of running water, it generates movement, cleanses, renews and creates momentum. Like the magnetic power of the moon, it enchants, generates enthusiasm, alters moods and attracts the tides of change and manifestation.

To infuse your life with passion, practice any of this. Start with the easiest and strive to allow all of these states in your life:

  • Open your heart to the River of Life– Let life in. Do not defend yourself and do not try to control things. Just allow the flow of events to inspire and to guide you to Divine Design.
  • Open your hips to the dance of life. Feel the movement of your body through life. Dance with your emotions. Become aware of your desires and nourish them.
  • Open your hands to the touch of life. Allow life to touch you deeply –whether it’s a moment of sadness, a landscape of beauty or a subtle, brief moment of silence.
  • Allow yourself to receive and express your desire with contagious joy and spirit. Don’t hold back. Don’t hold it in. Don’t wait until everything is perfect in order to share it. Share your enthusiasm for a project, cause or goal with others and allow them to celebrate with you.
  • See the beauty and the miracles around you. Passion is the doorway to magic. If you see everything with dull eyes, your imagination needs to wake up. See the magic of every day life, and your passion will be irresistible.
  • Dare to share your deepest feelings with the innocence of children. Most people talk about others, the news or the weather. Few share themselves. Dare to share your feelings in the moment. Dare to feel deeply and share that depth. You will become unforgettable.
  • Connect to life and watch the flow of that river make miracles! When you connect to life instead of trying to control it, your projects seem to do themselves and your work flows effortlessly.

Light and Love,

Maria Mar

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Are you Self-centered? Good!

Are you Self-centered? Good!

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Art by Maria Mar(2)2000. No reproduction, copy or paste allowed.

Art by Maria Mar(c)2000.

Did you inherit a belief that being self-centered is selfish? What is left if you are not your own center? You become other-centered. This is how you are trained for toxic relationships.

What is your center? Your Soul.

What does it do?

  • It guides you in your Earth Walk, reminding you of your true nature and life purpose.
  • It replenishes your vital force through radiance, love, presence, self-love, self-healing, creativity and joy.
  • It sustains you when everything around you threatens to knock you down.
  • It harmonizes your being with the Universe through its Essence, like the fragrance of a rose harmonizes and heals you.
  • It defines your genuine values, giving meaning to your life.

When you lack this center, you make others your center. This is giving away your power and it leads you to living in fear, always afraid that your center will be taken away. When you are other-centered then you cannot love or care for others in a genuine way, because:

  • You follow them blindly, as you have no self-compass, but blame them because you always feel lost.
  • You become a vampire, sucking their life force, as you are dried and empty for lack of connecting to your Soul.
  • You lean on them heavily, becoming a burden, because you have no center to lean on yourself.
  • You create dissonance wherever you are, because you are alone, scared and separated and you cannot truly harmonize with others.
  • You follow other people’s values, are easily manipulated and lack meaning in your life, as you are hollowed because your Soul has been buried too deep and you do not feel your own substance.

Because of this, when you are other-centered, you are truly selfish, no matter how much you caretake others. You do it from a place of neediness and fear, not love.

Therefore, self-centerness is the opposite of self-absorption and selfishness.

Self-centerness is a state of love for yourself that allows you to love others from your center and meet them at a place where they also stand in their own center.

Light and love,

Maria Mar

The Dream Alchemist

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