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Are you communicating?

TODAY’S TIP:

You have a cell phone, blackberry, 3 emails, 5 social networks. But do you communicate? Here’s a test. 1) How much of what you transmit is about what you are doing? 2) How much is sharing what you feel, perceive or know? 3) How well do you know the unique person(s) at the other side of your gadgets? Talk less. Share more.

RESOURCE:
For information on the GadgetTalk addiction, click here.

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About Maria Mar

Maria Mar  is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known shaman who helps you to break through the hidden interference to your success, to unleash your Greatness and manifest the life of your dreams. She offers books, digital products and coaching, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.

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Training Silver: Silver is lonely

TODAY’S TIP:

Training Silver: Silver is my neighbor’s dog. He sits alone all day while my neighbor works, looking so sad. But he starts growling when anyone gets close. He was abused before and now he’s afraid to be hurt. What can you tell silver?

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Training Silver is a series of questions asked by God through a dog. (Or at least through my observations of a real dog.) Answering the dog is answering God, which is also answering yourself and each of us. This is an invitation to collective dialogue.

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Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known shaman who inspires women to manifest the life of their dreams. She offers books, digital products and coaching, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.

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Sacred Mirrors

TODAY’S TIP: Sacred Mirrors

The world reflects you. You create Sacred Mirrors in which to see aspects of yourself that you disown or that need change or healing. Before judging or rejecting others, see the mirrors they present.

The more someone annoys you, the more urgent it is for you to see the mirror this person presents, even if it is magnified or distorted.

Two examples of Sacred Mirrors:

Mirror 1: Someone refuses to pay you or devalues your work. Observe the negative attitudes and beliefs of this person. How do they reflect hidden fears or devaluing that you may be doing to yourself or your work? Do you secretly feel that you are charging too much or that no one will buy what you offer? As you address this issue, you may gain valuable insight that can help you release financial self-sabotage.

Mirror 2: A peer leaves you hanging out in an activity you are organizing, after having confirmed. Examine the fears, expectations and perceptions that motivated this person to not honor her word. Perhaps she was afraid to compete with other professionals, to be unfavorably compared. Perhaps she thought that she had nothing to gain. Perhaps she over-committed herself. How do you engage in similar thoughts, fears or habits? (Even if you keep your word once you commit.) What did this person lose as a result of her expectations and fears? This understanding will allow you to see the invisible obstacles to your career progress.

Sacred Mirrors reveal what is now invisible to your psyche. They are a tool for evolution and freedom.

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Toxic Relationships Self-help Kit at:

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Prosperity and relationships

TODAY’S TIP:

Prosperity is deeply connected to relationships because wealth is created as the result of an exchange between people.

What did you learn to expect from strangers? Do you expect others to value you, to remunerate you justly and joyfully, and to trust you?

Or did you learn to expect betrayal, to be cheated or undervalued? Do you expect others to receive or reject you?

Carefully examine your expectations about relationships, and you will find the core of your issues with prosperity.

RESOURCE: Shifting Beliefs
For a journal-writing exercise to free yourself from self-sabotaging beliefs about relationships and prosperity, click here.

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Are you Self-centered? Good!

Are you Self-centered? Good!

By Maria Mar©

Art by Maria Mar(2)2000. No reproduction, copy or paste allowed.

Art by Maria Mar(c)2000.

Did you inherit a belief that being self-centered is selfish? What is left if you are not your own center? You become other-centered. This is how you are trained for toxic relationships.

What is your center? Your Soul.

What does it do?

  • It guides you in your Earth Walk, reminding you of your true nature and life purpose.
  • It replenishes your vital force through radiance, love, presence, self-love, self-healing, creativity and joy.
  • It sustains you when everything around you threatens to knock you down.
  • It harmonizes your being with the Universe through its Essence, like the fragrance of a rose harmonizes and heals you.
  • It defines your genuine values, giving meaning to your life.

When you lack this center, you make others your center. This is giving away your power and it leads you to living in fear, always afraid that your center will be taken away. When you are other-centered then you cannot love or care for others in a genuine way, because:

  • You follow them blindly, as you have no self-compass, but blame them because you always feel lost.
  • You become a vampire, sucking their life force, as you are dried and empty for lack of connecting to your Soul.
  • You lean on them heavily, becoming a burden, because you have no center to lean on yourself.
  • You create dissonance wherever you are, because you are alone, scared and separated and you cannot truly harmonize with others.
  • You follow other people’s values, are easily manipulated and lack meaning in your life, as you are hollowed because your Soul has been buried too deep and you do not feel your own substance.

Because of this, when you are other-centered, you are truly selfish, no matter how much you caretake others. You do it from a place of neediness and fear, not love.

Therefore, self-centerness is the opposite of self-absorption and selfishness.

Self-centerness is a state of love for yourself that allows you to love others from your center and meet them at a place where they also stand in their own center.

Light and love,

Maria Mar

The Dream Alchemist

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Healthy Relationships-No2-Differences

TODAY’S TIP:

Healthy Relationship Psychic Key No. 2-Differences

Ask yourself: When I face those differences in my Beloved that exasperate me, am I meeting a teacher? How can these traits enrich and balance me? What can I learn when I stop judging and trying to change him or her?

Example:

You are passionate and quick. Your element is fire and you are quick to rise and respond. You get impatient with his/her slow response and the time s/he takes to deliberate.

Difference as teacher:

Your Beloved’s element is earth. It takes time to form a shape (or opinion) because earthy consciousness considers each consequence to self and others. Once s/he forms an opinion it is usually well informed and therefore, there is no regret and little change. There is congruence and consistency. You, in the other hand, react so quickly that you are prompt to make more mistakes. If you learn from his/her earthy deliberation, instead of judging him/her slow and exasperating about it, you will become wiser in your deliberation. That won’t put out your fire, because that’s essential to you, but it will bring balance, which you need. That’s why you chose this Beloved!

Of course this is easier to say than to do. Here’s one easy quick practice:

  1. When you find yourself impatient, judging him/her or about to say something to your Beloved, breathe deeply and consciously adopt an attitude of curiosity and observation.
  2. Give your mind the task of carefully observing his/her actions and learning HOW s/he does it.
  3. Later that day try to copy him/her consciously when the opportunity arises. Do it as a fun experiment. How does it feel? Is there anything worthwhile that you can copy to enrich your own life repertoire?
  4. Don’t forget to thank him/her and name what you are learning. (You will be amazed how this tiny recognition enhances your relationship.)

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No.1-Free from toxic relationships

TODAY’S TIP:

Free yourself from toxic relationships-Psychic Key No. 1. Do you want to be in control? You will become the slave of those you wish to control.
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who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

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RESOURCES:

The Toxic Relationships Self-help Kit

Release toxic emotions and learn to let go:

http://www.sedona.com