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Break free from attachment

TODAY’S TIP

Attachment is an energy knot that ties you emotionally and energetically to the past, blocking your Personal Freedom and your capacity to manifest your dreams. Find out how to break it below.

PRIMARY ATTACHMENT

Attachment is first created during your socialization –childhood and youth– when your Primary Identity or primary needs are emotionally linked to a particular belief or set of circumstances.

An example of this would be if you learned from your family’s dynamics that you must sacrifice your own desires to be accepted. In this case you are attached to self-sacrifice.

See below for solutions.

SECONDARY ATTACHMENT

Attachment can also be created later on in your adult life when you give away your Personal Power to another person or conditions. This also ties up your energy chords, holding you hostage of that to which you have given away your power.

The classic example of Secondary Attachment is when you give away your Personal Power to your love partner, believing that you are nothing without him or her. You allow humiliation, betrayal and abuse because of this belief.

It is often the case that below the surface of a Secondary Attachment, you will find a Primary Attachment. In the case above, you may find out in your healing process that there is a childhood belief like the one in the first section, where you sacrifice yourself to be loved.

See solutions below.

SOUL INSULT

Finally, if a piece of your Soul is hidden or stolen by trauma, this also creates an attachment because that part of you cannot grow or move on. It is a prisoner of the set of beliefs, emotions and circumstances that insult or injured it, and it cannot leave the place of hiding.

An example of this is if as a child you were shame at a moment when your mother or father had died. A part of you may have hidden in the coffin with your dead parent in order to escape what you perceived at that time as an injury because you were an orphan.

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SOLUTIONS

Break free from Primary Attachment

To break free from Primary Attachment, you need to practice emotional detachment until you know how to energetically and emotionally remove yourself from certain conditions, gathering your Personal Power onto yourself without fear of losing your Primary Identity. Once you master this tool, then you need to apply to the past, persons or social scripts that you have confused with your Primary Identity or that are keeping you from taking care of your primary needs.

RESOURCE: The Unstuck Yourself and Flourish Home Study Course is an intensive, 3-months work out that helps you detach from the past and assume your Personal Power. Read more.

Break free from Secondary Attachment

To break free from Secondary Attachment, you need to place distance between you and the person or conditions to which you’ve given away your power. Then you begin to retrieve each particular aspect of your Personal Power that you gave away. You also need to nurture your self-love and to parent the Wounded Children behind the Secondary Attachment (in the Primary Attachment beneath it) through Self-parenting.

RESOURCE: The Self-mothering Kit helps you mother your Wounded Children and summon your Warrior Mother to be able to make strong decisions for yourself. Read more.

Break free from Soul Insult

To break free from Soul Insult, you need to go through a Soul Retrieval Journey. This can be done with the guidance of a shaman or healer, a qualified hypnotherapist or therapist. (Ask them if they know about Soul Retrieval or Inner Child work). The Soul Retrieval Journey takes you back in time to the past, helps you find the aspect of your Soul that has been stolen or is hidden and brings it back home to your adult self. There are specific steps and conditions for this process, so please seek qualified help.

After bringing that aspect of your Soul back, you need to cultivate a mothering, unconditionally loving relationship with it until it integrates to the rest of your Primary Identity. You do this by self-mothering.

RESOURCES: I am preparing a Soul Retrieval Online Private Session, so email me to get into the waiting list and I’ll email you when it’s ready. Also look at the Self-mothering Kit.

I hope this helps!

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About Maria Mar

Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known healer and shaman who helps you to achieve personal freedom, unlock your creative potential and live a life of magic and delight. She offers books, digital products and private guidance, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.

If you want to flourish under Maria’s mentorship and guidance, visit http://www.dreamalchemist.com.

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Internal Actions for success

TODAY’S TIP:

Internal Actions

If you are suffering self-sabotage due to hidden interferences, External Actions alone are not effective in breaking through.You need the power of Internal Actions. These are processes that create change in your perception, emotions, thoughts and energy patterns. They are the alchemy that releases the limitations to your success.

Here are examples of Internal Actions.

  • Allowing
  • Receiving
  • Accepting
  • Releasing
  • Detaching
  • Shifting
  • Surrendering
  • Expanding
  • Going within

Here’s a daily practice for this week.

Discover how nature uses the Internal Actions above to create, renew and recycle life. Detect the Internal Action, how it plays out and the results.

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Keys to your Dream. Key4:Gratitude

TODAY’S TIP:

Keys to your Dream.

Key No.4: Gratitude.

Gratitude is an alchemical state of the heart that creates three streams of attraction. The first stream is called Receiving, the second Celebration, the third, Acknowledgment. Receiving is an open heart that allows and accepts. Celebration is a party the Universe can’t resist. To your subconscious, Acknowledgment means that the situation is already a reality.

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Healing Essence of Love

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1 minute healing: What soul-soothing ointment do you need right now? Stop and open your being to Divine Love. Feel it bathing your Energy Field. It slowly penetrates your body with its gentle, healing properties. It bathes your mind and nerves in a soothing blue essence. Breathe its nourishing potency. Allow it to harmonize your emotions. Feel the Mother’s embrace caressing your Soul.

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RESOURCES:

Digital Self-love Ceremony

This ceremony in a package contains an ebook, audio meditation and two posters for visual meditation that together comprise a ceremony to enhance self-love. If you want a gentle, but quick experience that can nourish self-love without being hard work, this is it.

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Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known shaman who helps you to break through the hidden interference to your success, to unleash your Greatness and manifest the life of your dreams. She offers books, digital products and coaching, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.

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Courting life

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Life likes to be courted. Dance. Celebrate. Laugh. Life won’t be able to resist the invitation!

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Limiting beliefs No.1-Opinions

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How do you hold on to limiting beliefs? Clue No. 1: Observe how you use your opinions to repel new perceptions. That indicates your degree of attachment to limiting beliefs. Whether you think your opinion is a fact or truth is irrelevant. What is important is the degree to which you feel compelled to defend your opinion.

Instead of giving in to this impulse, stand back. Detach from the need to defend your opinion or belief. Instead focus on listening, understanding and receiving the new perception trying to come in. If you become anxious, tell yourself that this is an exercise in receptivity and that you have the power to choose whether you believe this new perception or not at the end, but in order to decide freely, you need to listen with an open mind.

If you practice this for 40 days, you will begin to see the Primary Emotions that hold you attached to old beliefs, and you will jumpstart the process of releasing these old fear-based emotions. Your life will transform as your perception expands.

Why? Because your perception creates your world. Your world cannot expand and enrich until you are able to release the old perceptions that keep you in the past.

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Grief is a gift

TODAY’S TIP:

Sometimes grief is a gift. Do not fear the pain in your heart. Breathe deeply into your Ancestral Heart and enter it as you enter a Temple. The Goddess of Personal Truth lives there. She will return you home.

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