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Snake Medicine: Shed your old skin

TODAY’S TIP:

Animal Medicine-No. 2. Snake

Life Renewal: Shedding the old skin

Snake teaches you to shed your old skin. It’s a messy process. When your old self begins to lift off you, it’s hard to know who you really are. Are you a fake? How come you want and believe one thing, but still do another.

Then, the new skin begins to show up and you feel relief, but you are also scared. You don’t know this new you. Your life is changing. As much as you have dreamt of this new way of life, it’s unknown. It so new that it feels strange most of the time.

As you experience your new self, you feel a great sense of freedom and congruence. Ah! But the old skin sticks here and there, refusing to let go completely. You grow impatient with yourself.

Snake says, “love yourself deeply and unconditionally and trust your Soul to lead the way.”

Maria Mar(c)

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Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

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The number one enemy of manifestation

TODAY’S TIP:

What is the number ONE enemy of manifestation? Your control obsession. It keeps you jailed in the a tiny familiar world, which you believe you can control. It makes you repel the unknown, evicting you from your dreams and potential. It does not allow you to receive. It sends away the allies that the universe sends you.

Do not confuse control with power. Your obsession with control gets stronger in direct proportion to your core sense of personal powerlessness and your separation from Oneness. Your need to control the tiniest details of the process of manifestation indicates that you do not trust the Universe and cannot receive its gifts.

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below, with functional link:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

RESOURCE:

I recommend a beautiful, powerful teaching from Sugandhi Iyer, Coach, Joyful Manifestation, http://www.lifebusinesscreations.com.

Here’s the article: The difference between obsession and manifestation.

Most of your problems are your creation

TODAY’S TIP:

Remember that computer malfunction that made you miss your deadline? Those late paying clients? The blocked contract? You have single-handedly created this. Yes, YOU. More to the point, your Shadows. Your Inner Enemies have shaped these obstacles into being using the powerhouse of your emotions. Imagine what you could do if you stop feeding your emotions to your Shadows and use them instead to manifest solutions!

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

The real tragedy of Drama Queens

TODAY’S TIP:

The real tragedy of Drama Queens:

When you are trapped in your habitual Soap Opera Dramas, you are self-involved to the point that you miss sight of three vital things: your surroundings, other people and your goals.

To find out the 12 mistakes of the Drama Queen, and how to get off the role, visit this post:

http://dreamexpress.wordpress.com/2009/06/12/the-real-tragedy-of-drama-queens

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express at http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com!

Are you ready for success? Self-evaluation

TODAY’S TIP:

Are you creating a start-up business or positioning yourself as an expert? I’ve seen many small businesses and professionals who tell me they want to succeed, but do everything possible to repel success.

Take the mini-evaluation below to see if you are repelling what you want.

Are you doing any of this?

1)Receptivity.

A. Are you listening to your clients’ needs to design what will sell now to those available?

OR
B. Are you wrapped up on your own abstract plans of big markets, focused on all the birds flying by and letting those in hand escape?

2)Flexible design

A. Are you setting up your structures and resources in a flexible way that can accommodate that big break when it comes?

OR

B. Are you setting yourself up so that you won’t be able to take that big opportunity when it shows up, planning to stay small?

3)Daily focused Implementation

A. Do you rejoice on each small step that takes you to your clearly-defined goal?

OR

B. Are you focused on your limitations, generating frustration and doing a lot of actions that don’t take you to a clear destination?

4) Affordable marketing and client cultivation

A. Are you using available, affordable resources to reach your target market, enjoying and enriching each new client relation?

OR

B. Or are you salivating for those BIG numbers that you can’t reach now, investing beyond your reach or frustrated by your limitations?

5)Beliefs, emotions and readiness

A. Do you BELIEVE that your success is not only possible, but inevitable? Do you feel that you deserve it? Are you ready to receive?

OR

B. Are you fighting against the whole world, which you perceive to be against you?
Give yourself a -5 for each B answer. Give yourself a +5 for each A answer. Add up your points and find out your score.

25-20
You are doing well. You have a clear goal that you keep reviewing as you meet the needs of your clients, and you are taking small steps that are taking you to your BIG destination.

15-10
You are not rooted in the present. Your mind is holding big plans that your actions are not supporting. You are working too hard and wasting energy in actions that are not well-strategized. Take time to think, do research, ask questions and get help to develop clear goals and design steps to get there that are doable now.

5-0
You are working as if you were alone in the world, and you are disconnected from the available resources, from your allies, opportunities and even from your potential clients. Connect! Invest on expert help that helps you take your blinders off and seize the available resources.

-5 to -10
You have big dreams, but you are not taking yourself seriously in implementing them because you really don’t believe in them. Land your dream on reality by seeking help and doing research that allows you to develop a simple, doable strategy that makes things happen now while there is room to grow. You need the internal actions of Shakti, the Female Aspect of Power, to ground your actions in the world.

-15 to -20
You are furiously wanting what you are furiously repelling! Get clear on your own emotional self-sabotage, your fears and false beliefs that are stealing your dream away. You are a prisoner of Polarities. An Inner War is stealing your power to manifest.

-25
Do you really want to do this? Why? Seat alone, breathing gently and deeply into your heart and listen to your Soul. Only when you hear your BodySoul, which is your Dream Compass, will you be able to believe in and create a reality that makes your dream come true.

Need more help in manifesting your dream career, business, expert position or quality of life? Then consult with Maria Mar, the Dream Alchemist.

http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com/coaching.htm

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

Do you suffer an Inner Divorce?

TODAY’S TIP:

Are you split by an Inner Divorce? If you cannot integrate money and spirituality, your knowledge with your emotions or your business with your creativity, you may suffer from an Inner Divorce that is also reflected in your relationships, writings and career. Your Shiva and Shakti Powers need to marry.

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

Your thoughts are the texture of your experience

TODAY’S TIP:

What is constantly in your mind becomes the texture of your experience of life.

To find out what type of thoughts are texturing your experience do the following tracking today:

1) Observe the patterns and texture of thoughts that recur during the day. These are your Primary Thoughts. Jot them down in your journal this evening.

Then, for the rest of the week, track down the following:

2) Observe which of those recurring Primary Thoughts you feed and which ones you starve (with attention and emotion).

The result is the texture of your experience in life

Example, if the first day you track down recurring thoughts of annoyance and interpretations of everything being an inconvenience, and then you track down that you feed these thoughts with feelings of frustration, irritation and hostility, then the texture of your experience of life is one of irritation.

Connection between Primary Thoughts, life experience and disease:

3) If you suffer some medical condition, connect the texture of your Primary Thoughts and life experience to that condition.

For example, irritation may express itself in acne, psoriasis, allergies, skin problems, nervous conditions or inflammation.

If you discover something helpful or a new insight, come on, drop a comment. Participate in life!

Light and love,

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!