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Break free from attachment

TODAY’S TIP

Attachment is an energy knot that ties you emotionally and energetically to the past, blocking your Personal Freedom and your capacity to manifest your dreams. Find out how to break it below.

PRIMARY ATTACHMENT

Attachment is first created during your socialization –childhood and youth– when your Primary Identity or primary needs are emotionally linked to a particular belief or set of circumstances.

An example of this would be if you learned from your family’s dynamics that you must sacrifice your own desires to be accepted. In this case you are attached to self-sacrifice.

See below for solutions.

SECONDARY ATTACHMENT

Attachment can also be created later on in your adult life when you give away your Personal Power to another person or conditions. This also ties up your energy chords, holding you hostage of that to which you have given away your power.

The classic example of Secondary Attachment is when you give away your Personal Power to your love partner, believing that you are nothing without him or her. You allow humiliation, betrayal and abuse because of this belief.

It is often the case that below the surface of a Secondary Attachment, you will find a Primary Attachment. In the case above, you may find out in your healing process that there is a childhood belief like the one in the first section, where you sacrifice yourself to be loved.

See solutions below.

SOUL INSULT

Finally, if a piece of your Soul is hidden or stolen by trauma, this also creates an attachment because that part of you cannot grow or move on. It is a prisoner of the set of beliefs, emotions and circumstances that insult or injured it, and it cannot leave the place of hiding.

An example of this is if as a child you were shame at a moment when your mother or father had died. A part of you may have hidden in the coffin with your dead parent in order to escape what you perceived at that time as an injury because you were an orphan.

See solutions below.

SOLUTIONS

Break free from Primary Attachment

To break free from Primary Attachment, you need to practice emotional detachment until you know how to energetically and emotionally remove yourself from certain conditions, gathering your Personal Power onto yourself without fear of losing your Primary Identity. Once you master this tool, then you need to apply to the past, persons or social scripts that you have confused with your Primary Identity or that are keeping you from taking care of your primary needs.

RESOURCE: The Unstuck Yourself and Flourish Home Study Course is an intensive, 3-months work out that helps you detach from the past and assume your Personal Power. Read more.

Break free from Secondary Attachment

To break free from Secondary Attachment, you need to place distance between you and the person or conditions to which you’ve given away your power. Then you begin to retrieve each particular aspect of your Personal Power that you gave away. You also need to nurture your self-love and to parent the Wounded Children behind the Secondary Attachment (in the Primary Attachment beneath it) through Self-parenting.

RESOURCE: The Self-mothering Kit helps you mother your Wounded Children and summon your Warrior Mother to be able to make strong decisions for yourself. Read more.

Break free from Soul Insult

To break free from Soul Insult, you need to go through a Soul Retrieval Journey. This can be done with the guidance of a shaman or healer, a qualified hypnotherapist or therapist. (Ask them if they know about Soul Retrieval or Inner Child work). The Soul Retrieval Journey takes you back in time to the past, helps you find the aspect of your Soul that has been stolen or is hidden and brings it back home to your adult self. There are specific steps and conditions for this process, so please seek qualified help.

After bringing that aspect of your Soul back, you need to cultivate a mothering, unconditionally loving relationship with it until it integrates to the rest of your Primary Identity. You do this by self-mothering.

RESOURCES: I am preparing a Soul Retrieval Online Private Session, so email me to get into the waiting list and I’ll email you when it’s ready. Also look at the Self-mothering Kit.

I hope this helps!

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About Maria Mar

Maria Mar is an author, speaker and ceremonialist poet. She is also a spiritual teacher and an internationally known healer and shaman who helps you to achieve personal freedom, unlock your creative potential and live a life of magic and delight. She offers books, digital products and private guidance, art that heals and transforms as well as performances, speaking engagements and other live and online events to help you become the protagonist of your life and the creator of your destiny. Find out more at Catch the Dream Express.

If you want to flourish under Maria’s mentorship and guidance, visit http://www.dreamalchemist.com.

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You have no defects!

TODAY’S TIP:

A lot of us look at our limitations and emotional wounds as defects. This makes us ashamed, encourages self-judgment, diminishes self-love and makes us avoid looking into those Breaking Points that keep us stuck.

Here’s some great news from the secrets of Shamanic Hunters.

Your wounds are NOT defects.

They are your Personal Power. You heard right.

Your Breaking Points are created by you during your Domestication stage (childhood and youth) by using your Personal Power. But you use these powers from a learned place of fear.  And you use them in ways that have been modeled for you, which may have been disfunctional.

Instead of avoiding delving into these wounds or limits, go ahead, plunge into them and discover the underlying fear. Beneath it you will find the learned belief that fuels that fear.

Once you do this, you can detach from those old habitual responses. Doing this frees your Personal Power so that you can focus it in the manifestation of your best potential.

This is why spiritual teachers say that you have the power to make Medicine from your Wounds.

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Separation

TODAY’S TIP:

Separation cripples your connection to Oneness. How do you separate yourself? Take a moment to meditate on how you separate yourself in order to protect yourself. How do you separate yourself from those who offer help? From those who love you? From strangers? From what seems a criticism or what challenges you? From powerful people? How can you build a bridge instead of an abyss?

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Grief is a gift

TODAY’S TIP:

Sometimes grief is a gift. Do not fear the pain in your heart. Breathe deeply into your Ancestral Heart and enter it as you enter a Temple. The Goddess of Personal Truth lives there. She will return you home.

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Are you communicating?

TODAY’S TIP:

You have a cell phone, blackberry, 3 emails, 5 social networks. But do you communicate? Here’s a test. 1) How much of what you transmit is about what you are doing? 2) How much is sharing what you feel, perceive or know? 3) How well do you know the unique person(s) at the other side of your gadgets? Talk less. Share more.

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Are you a success?

TODAY’S TIP:

Are you a success? How do you measure this? We often measure success by external results. This is a mistake because if you have yet to see those results, you will feel a failure! Success is built from the inside out, so that it is always there, no matter what is happening around you, because YOU are the success!

Light and love,

Maria Mar

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You are your environment

TODAY’S TIP:

Today and every day you have the creative power to weave a unique, striking reality. You can create, transform and heal your environment. Below find the seven dimensions of your weave. Use these dimensions to access and direct your creative power today.

TEXTURE

Texture is created by the energy you transmit. Here are a handful of textures you may be transmitting.

  • Harmony
  • Smoothness
  • Irritation
  • Friction
  • Balance
  • Roughness
  • Playfulness
  • Excitement
  • Relaxation
  • Receptivity
  • Aggression

TEMPERATURE

This is the degree of warmth or coldness you bring into your environment. Here are a few options:

  • Coldness (Impersonal, unfeeling, disconnected, defensive, superior)
  • Warmth (Personal, feeling-rich, connected, receptive, democratic)
  • Cool (Informal, friendly, go-with-the-flow, easy-going, approving)
  • Hot (Competitive, exciting, sexy, passionate, urgent, accelerated)

DESIGN

This is the quality, beauty and connectedness of the weaving you are creating as it brings people together in connection to a common purpose.

  • Beauty, art, creativity, uniqueness
  • Coherence, balance, harmony, wholesomeness
  • Collaborative, mutuality, interconnected, team spirit
  • Intimacy, honesty, friendship, belonging
  • Support, interdependence, loyalty
  • Depth, wisdom, understanding, commitment
  • Richness, intricacy, extra-ordinariness, virtuosity, originality
  • Sustainability, durability
  • Faith, higher-purpose, transcendence,
  • Competitiveness, high standards, individuality, ambition
  • Survival, cut-throat competition, adversarial, each to its own
  • Status-obsessed, fearful, distrustful, elitist

STRUCTURE

This is the level of comprehensiveness, balance and integrity in the weave you are building as it relates to the parts and the whole, the individual and the collective, you and others, interior and exterior realities. Here are some options:

  • Integrative- Your design seeks to integrate the different parts with the whole, the individual with the collective objectives and wellbeing, what you want with what others want, the interior reality with the external circumstances. You seek a win-win-win-win relationships. You seek simplicity, effectiveness and mutuality in the structure, emphasizing integration and congruence.
  • Multi-layered– Your design incorporates multiple layers, each designed to address an aspect of reality, so that you may have aspects of your time, space or relationships designed to meet your own needs while others meet other people’s needs, some deal with the personal and others with the business, some with spiritual and emotional issues and others with financial or material circumstances. All needs and aspects may be addressed and may interlaced in some points, but they are not fully integrated. They are often compartmentalized.
  • Multi-tasking– You attempt to address the intricacies of all the aspects of your life and business by doing more, often at the same time.

COLORS

This is about passion, feelings, creativity and the expression of uniqueness, as well as the degree of aliveness, vibrancy and awareness in your weave. They are BIG mood setters. Colors are deeply linked to emotions and feelings. As emotions are the fuel for life and for the Law of Attraction, colors are often powerful motivators and detectors of the level of vibrancy and passion in your life.

  • Vibrant- expressive of the diversity and richness of life
  • Bland- timid, careful, suppressed, trying to be elegant, conservative
  • Opaque- depressed, muddy, heavy
  • Fuzzy- chaotic, white-washed, undefined, blurry, unwilling or unable to commit
  • Original- unique blends, genuine expressions, being you, inviting others to share from their unique being
  • Daring, unique, imaginative- courageous expression and expansion of the imagination, daring to see things differently, to play and transform reality through shifts of perception, innovation
  • Harmonizing, graceful, soulful, expressing inner beauty
  • Violent, aggressive, explosive, invasive, on-your-face, angry, focusing on the negative, seeking disruption or the expression of these aspects in society
  • Attention-grabbing, manipulative

SOUNDS

Though strictly speaking a weaving does not have sound, in life your weave is made of vibrations that emit notes and create unique compositions. Here are some options:

  • Strident
  • Harmonious
  • Cacophonous
  • Melodic
  • Rhythmic
  • Chaotic
  • Flowing
  • Intermittent
  • Stop and go
  • Arpeggio
  • Pianissimo
  • Ear-shattering

MOVEMENT

Finally, though we don’t usually think of movement in a weave, your daily weaving creates a movement that is your dance with life. This movement moves you forward or pulls you backward, connects you to the flow of the universe or sends you bumping and stumbling against the world. Here are some options:

  • Circular
  • Linear
  • Flowing
  • Angular
  • Oppositional
  • Against the grain
  • With the grain
  • Penetrating
  • Interpenetrating
  • Invasive
  • Adaptive
  • Leaping
  • Crawling
  • Flying
  • Floating
  • Struggling
  • Fighting
  • Caressing, touching, sensual enjoyment
  • Playful, rhythmic, responsive
  • Combatant, clashing, reactive

Now you are equipped to answer this question:

What reality am I weaving today in my environment?

If you like what you are creating, celebrate it and share it here.

If you don’t, you have the power to change it.

Seek help. Ask questions. I will answer.

Light and love,

Maria Mar

The Dream Alchemist

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