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Healthy Relationships-No2-Differences

TODAY’S TIP:

Healthy Relationship Psychic Key No. 2-Differences

Ask yourself: When I face those differences in my Beloved that exasperate me, am I meeting a teacher? How can these traits enrich and balance me? What can I learn when I stop judging and trying to change him or her?

Example:

You are passionate and quick. Your element is fire and you are quick to rise and respond. You get impatient with his/her slow response and the time s/he takes to deliberate.

Difference as teacher:

Your Beloved’s element is earth. It takes time to form a shape (or opinion) because earthy consciousness considers each consequence to self and others. Once s/he forms an opinion it is usually well informed and therefore, there is no regret and little change. There is congruence and consistency. You, in the other hand, react so quickly that you are prompt to make more mistakes. If you learn from his/her earthy deliberation, instead of judging him/her slow and exasperating about it, you will become wiser in your deliberation. That won’t put out your fire, because that’s essential to you, but it will bring balance, which you need. That’s why you chose this Beloved!

Of course this is easier to say than to do. Here’s one easy quick practice:

  1. When you find yourself impatient, judging him/her or about to say something to your Beloved, breathe deeply and consciously adopt an attitude of curiosity and observation.
  2. Give your mind the task of carefully observing his/her actions and learning HOW s/he does it.
  3. Later that day try to copy him/her consciously when the opportunity arises. Do it as a fun experiment. How does it feel? Is there anything worthwhile that you can copy to enrich your own life repertoire?
  4. Don’t forget to thank him/her and name what you are learning. (You will be amazed how this tiny recognition enhances your relationship.)

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What are your steps in the dance?

TODAY’S TIP:

What are YOUR steps in the dance? The first step to free yourself from toxic relationships, problems or obstacles is to assume your power as creator or co-creator. Ask yourself the following questions and be impeccable in your answers.

  1. How is this problem a consequence of my choices, actions, attitudes and responses?
  2. How does this toxic person or obstacle mirrors your beliefs, thoughts and feelings?
  3. Have I done this before? Is this part of a pattern or habit?
  4. How do I attract this type of situations or persons?
  5. How do I feed this type of situation or toxic relationship?

Observing yourself during a couple of weeks, asking good friends to remind you of similar situations and looking at past relationships and at your family’s dysfunctional patterns will help answer these questions. Write the answers in your journal.

Only when you can recognize your own steps in the dance can you change the dance because the ONLY steps you can change are yours.

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One minute clearance

TODAY’S TIP:

What old world do you carry on your Psychic Shoulders?

1-minute clearance:

1) Inhale deeply as you feel its weight.

2) Exhale slowly, releasing it in a word that names it. (Guilt, trying to hard, fear of rejection, fighting time, etc.)

3) Inhale deeply as you experience and accept the feeling that keeps the weight on your shoulders.

4) As you exhale very slowly, release that feeling with the words “Good Bye.”

5) Inhale and RECEIVE the light of love stirring your spiritual wings.

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How do you feed your dream?

TODAY’S TIP:

Energy, attention and emotions are the food you use to feed your dream. Where you place your attention, there goes your energy. Whatever you pour your emotions into, that gets stronger. What are you feeding and what are you starving today?

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Attachment attracts

TODAY’S TIP:

Attachment attracts. If you do not like what you are attracting, track down your attachments. Close your eyes and breathe slowly and fully. Envision what you are attracting. Observe your emotions. Follow their vibrations until you find a shimmering energy chord that is attaching you to this reality. A stream of emotions, beliefs, attitudes and scripts sustains this chord. Cleanse it.

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Snake Medicine: Shed your old skin

TODAY’S TIP:

Animal Medicine-No. 2. Snake

Life Renewal: Shedding the old skin

Snake teaches you to shed your old skin. It’s a messy process. When your old self begins to lift off you, it’s hard to know who you really are. Are you a fake? How come you want and believe one thing, but still do another.

Then, the new skin begins to show up and you feel relief, but you are also scared. You don’t know this new you. Your life is changing. As much as you have dreamt of this new way of life, it’s unknown. It so new that it feels strange most of the time.

As you experience your new self, you feel a great sense of freedom and congruence. Ah! But the old skin sticks here and there, refusing to let go completely. You grow impatient with yourself.

Snake says, “love yourself deeply and unconditionally and trust your Soul to lead the way.”

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Re-focus your Attention

TODAY’S TIP:

Chase that thief out of your house! Deep within the Shadows of your psyche, there lives a thief. In that Inner House, the thief steals your wealth and kidnaps the children of your imagination. This thief even steals your potential, until nothing is left except what you lack. Chase this thief away by naming, celebrating and FEELING your accomplishments, credibility, good qualities, abilities, and experience.

When you want something new, perhaps a publishing contract, a new job or a new house, the thief will focus on what you lack. The experience you don’t have, the fact that you have never done exactly that before, the new skills or large numbers you don’t master yet. Meanwhile, this thief steals the experience, wisdom and expertise you DO have, so that you feel incompetent and begin to believe that you don’t deserve your dream, are not ready yet or will not succeed at it.

Re-focus your attention from what you lack to who you are as an essential being, what you DO have and what you have already accomplished. Build what you want on the foundation of what you have, and the thief won’t be able to steal it.

Maria Mar(c)

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Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!