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The real tragedy of Drama Queens

TODAY’S TIP:

The real tragedy of Drama Queens:

When you are trapped in your habitual Soap Opera Dramas, you are self-involved to the point that you miss sight of three vital things: your surroundings, other people and your goals.

To find out the 12 mistakes of the Drama Queen, and how to get off the role, visit this post:

http://dreamexpress.wordpress.com/2009/06/12/the-real-tragedy-of-drama-queens

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express at http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com!

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Book Sneak Preview: Daughters of the Stone

TODAY’S TIP:

Book Sneak Preview!

Sister: Do you like storytelling? Do you love to follow the thread in the herstory of generations of women? Do you wonder about the African roots of Puerto Rican and Latina women? Then you MUST get this upcoming novel: Daughters of the Stone, by Dahlma Llanos-Figueroa, published by St. Martin Press, NY. Publication date: September 2009. I just finished reading the proofs, and I loooved it.

Why does the Dream Alchemist recommend this book? Pay attention, and you will learn quite a few Female Secrets in the Law of Attraction and manifestation here. You will see women in the most oppressive conditions using their spiritual power to preserve their lives or their children. You will see how the Domestication Trance steals your self-love and shields your Soul, and how to reconnect with your Essence. Above all, you will enjoy a great story told masterfully by an excellent storyteller. Viva la Magia!

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!


Hang up! God is trying to get through!

TODAY’S TIP:

Hang up! God is trying to get through! If your mind is a busy line, always on, always worrying, planning and spinning, you are taking the long, hard route to manifestation and knowledge. You have a direct line to God and to your Ancestors. You don’t even have to pay a phone bill! Hang up. Be silent. Listen. What you need will get through to you in no time at all.

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

Are you ready for success? Self-evaluation

TODAY’S TIP:

Are you creating a start-up business or positioning yourself as an expert? I’ve seen many small businesses and professionals who tell me they want to succeed, but do everything possible to repel success.

Take the mini-evaluation below to see if you are repelling what you want.

Are you doing any of this?

1)Receptivity.

A. Are you listening to your clients’ needs to design what will sell now to those available?

OR
B. Are you wrapped up on your own abstract plans of big markets, focused on all the birds flying by and letting those in hand escape?

2)Flexible design

A. Are you setting up your structures and resources in a flexible way that can accommodate that big break when it comes?

OR

B. Are you setting yourself up so that you won’t be able to take that big opportunity when it shows up, planning to stay small?

3)Daily focused Implementation

A. Do you rejoice on each small step that takes you to your clearly-defined goal?

OR

B. Are you focused on your limitations, generating frustration and doing a lot of actions that don’t take you to a clear destination?

4) Affordable marketing and client cultivation

A. Are you using available, affordable resources to reach your target market, enjoying and enriching each new client relation?

OR

B. Or are you salivating for those BIG numbers that you can’t reach now, investing beyond your reach or frustrated by your limitations?

5)Beliefs, emotions and readiness

A. Do you BELIEVE that your success is not only possible, but inevitable? Do you feel that you deserve it? Are you ready to receive?

OR

B. Are you fighting against the whole world, which you perceive to be against you?
Give yourself a -5 for each B answer. Give yourself a +5 for each A answer. Add up your points and find out your score.

25-20
You are doing well. You have a clear goal that you keep reviewing as you meet the needs of your clients, and you are taking small steps that are taking you to your BIG destination.

15-10
You are not rooted in the present. Your mind is holding big plans that your actions are not supporting. You are working too hard and wasting energy in actions that are not well-strategized. Take time to think, do research, ask questions and get help to develop clear goals and design steps to get there that are doable now.

5-0
You are working as if you were alone in the world, and you are disconnected from the available resources, from your allies, opportunities and even from your potential clients. Connect! Invest on expert help that helps you take your blinders off and seize the available resources.

-5 to -10
You have big dreams, but you are not taking yourself seriously in implementing them because you really don’t believe in them. Land your dream on reality by seeking help and doing research that allows you to develop a simple, doable strategy that makes things happen now while there is room to grow. You need the internal actions of Shakti, the Female Aspect of Power, to ground your actions in the world.

-15 to -20
You are furiously wanting what you are furiously repelling! Get clear on your own emotional self-sabotage, your fears and false beliefs that are stealing your dream away. You are a prisoner of Polarities. An Inner War is stealing your power to manifest.

-25
Do you really want to do this? Why? Seat alone, breathing gently and deeply into your heart and listen to your Soul. Only when you hear your BodySoul, which is your Dream Compass, will you be able to believe in and create a reality that makes your dream come true.

Need more help in manifesting your dream career, business, expert position or quality of life? Then consult with Maria Mar, the Dream Alchemist.

http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com/coaching.htm

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

Understanding Emotions: Anger

TODAY’S TIP:

Understanding Emotions: Anger

About 2/3 of the times anger arouses, it is a defense against pain triggered by how you interpret a situation. 1) Dive directly into the pain. Feel and acknowledge it. 2) Release your interpretation of the situation. 3)Welcome a resolution that honors your needs and others’. The emotional flow generated by this process will transform the situation into a fresh encounter.

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

Act like your self!

TODAY’S TIP:

Don’t be fooled by appearances! You ALREADY are your DreamSelf. The circumstances, habits and fears that stand between you and your Dream are a carcass you took on during your Domestication. Don’t confuse yourself with your Identity. Shed that Domestication Dress by assuming your DreamSelf in all thoughts, words, actions and stance, now, today!

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!

Avoiding pain

TODAY’S TIP:

If you avoid the pain of change at whatever price, the Universe will create the ONLY way you will stop avoiding the pain of change: a greater pain if you do not change. Knowing this, embrace whatever change brings health, and you will not only be pain-free, but healthy and happy!

Maria Mar(c)

You can use this quote as long as you include my name and copyright mark and the paragraph below:

Maria Mar is the Dream Alchemist, an inspirational poet, speaker, coach, author and spiritual teacher who helps women create the life of their dreams. Visit her at: Catch the Dream Express!